I know, I know... the letters are crazy, but it�s simply a search engine precaution. I�m not looking to be anonymous, just not advertised in that way. So here�s a key to the letters as well as descriptions of some of the players in my life.

People:

J - That would be my dear husband. He�s a computer geek by trade but a rock star at heart. He drives me nuts like a good husband should. He showed me how to enjoy watching golf and brought me to Pittsburgh. He is so loyal that he once told me had he met me when he was married to his first wife, he would have avoided me. Trust is a very good thing. So is love, and we have that too.

j - Am I not clever with the big J/little j thing? Well, j would get a kick out of it. He�s my ten-year-old son. This is the child, being the firstborn, subjected to my learning process in parenting. He boogied to Ministry when he was one year old, which might explain his aversion to such music now. He is just beginning to torment me with top 40 radio blasting from his room. Right now, he�s a sweet, well-mannered young man. We�ll see how that changes when the word "teen" enters his age.